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Frequently Asked Questions

Q: I signed up but never got a verification email. Why?

A: If you don't see a verification mail in your in-box after signup.
1) Make sure you spelled your email address correctly during signup.
2) Check your junk mail folder. Some ISPs will see this form of email as junk mail do to the sites content.
3) Add the email address admin@bdsmhaven.com to your address book
4) Contact your ISP and ask them why you are not able to receive email from bdsmhaven.com
5) Try using a different email address.
6) If you have tried everything above contact us at admin@bdsmhaven.com or call us 1-210-584-2735 and we will do everything we can to help.

Q: What is My Home?

A: My Home is the first page you will see when you log into the site. It is in essence a control panel that contains information about your membership level. The membership level will tell you what you are allowed to do on our site. You can click on the link for more information. It also contains the latest news and what is going on with the site.

Q: What is My Profile?

A: My Profile is the section where you will make changes to your profile. It contains the following: Update Profile here you can make changes to your profile information; i.e.; age, name, password, etc. Customize Profile here you can change the font color, and size, along with background color, or even a background image. View My Profile allows you to view your profile as other member's see it.

Q: What is My Uploads?

A: This is your file manager. Here you can upload photos, videos, and even sound files, There is a 10 picture maximum for the picture upload but we also offer a personal gallery where you can upload even more pictures. There are also size limits for video¡¦s and sound files, so look out for errors when you try to upload.

Q: What is My Pages?

A: My Pages are exactly what it sounds like. It is things that apply to your personal profile. My Guestbook other members can sign your guestbook, and you can manage what is in them. If you don't like it delete it. My Blog Here you can write things that are on your mind. It is like a diary so write to your hearts content. My Gallery This is your other pics folder. You can upload more pictures, videos, and or sound files. You can create groups and categories to make it a bit more organized and structured. My Polls Want to create your own poll? Go right ahead. Poll anything you want. Ask people if they like color blue. LOL! You get what we mean.

Q: What is Friends?

A: Friends is a list of your friends. After you have sent a friend request or accepted a friend invite, your friends will show up here. It's an easy way to see who's online and keep track of your friends.

Q: What is Who Kissed Me?

A: It's a list of people that sent you kisses.

Q: What is Communicator?

A: Communicator is your activity management station. It keeps track of who viewed your profile, and your profile views, who kissed you, and who you sent kisses to, who your current friends are, pending friend requests, blocked members and who blocked you, your hot lists, and who's hot list you are part of, etc. We're sure you get the idea now!

Q: What is Forum

A: Forum has been created for all of our members to use. You can post topics and make comments on our already created topics. It's a good place to post things on your mind, advice, etc. You can even learn a lot about other members based on their posts. You can upload an avatar picture in the my forum profile section.

Q: What is Membership Info?

A: Membership Info gives you current information about your profile and what you are allowed to do on the site.

Q: What is Leave Feedback?

A: Leave Feedback leave us some feedback. Once its approved it will show up on our site.

Q: What is Events

A: Events is a function that allows you to post local events in your area that you would like to let other members know about.

Q: What is Send Message?

A: Send Message is your way of sending emails to another member on our site.

Q: How do I send an email or a message to another Member?

A: If you clicked on a user's profile you'll see a box that says Member's Menu. Click on Send Message. It will open another window where you can compose a message to another member. Type your message, hit send and off it goes.

Q: What is Send a Kiss?

A: Send A Kiss is a way of letting another member know that you are either interested or you think they are cute. Whichever way you see it, you can't take the kiss back once you send it. So kiss carefully.

Q: How do I send a kiss to a member?

A: You can send a kiss by clicking the link that says Send a Kiss.

Q: What is Email to Friend?

A: Email to Friend is a way of sending an email through our system to one of your friends letting them know about the profile that you are looking at. There might be a guy or girl on the site that you think your friend would like. Use the link to notify them of the member.

Q: What is Guestbook?

A: Guestbook is the member's Guestbook. You can view their guestbook entries as well as sign it yourself.

Q: How do I sign the, Guestbook?

A: Click on the Guestbook link under Members Menu and off you go.

Q: What is Gallery

A: Gallery is the member's Gallery. You can view other member's galleries by clicking on this link.

Q: How do I view other member's Galleries.

A: Click on Gallery under the Member's Menu box and browse their Galleries.

Q: What is Block Member?

A: Block Member is your way of blocking members that are not so nice to you. If you block a member they will not be able to contact you!

Q: How do I block a Member?

A: You can block a member by clicking on their profile and then click the block member link. That's it! You can verify it on your communicator.

Q: What is Send Friend Request

A: Send Friend Request is your way of asking another member on the site to be your friend. Once you click the link they will show up under the My Friends section on your profile.

Q: How do I Send a Friend Request?

A: Browse to the other member's profile and in the Member's Menu box click the send friend request link.

Q: What is Hot Member?

A: Hot Member is any member that you think is hot.

Q: How do add a member to my Hot List?

A: You can add a member to your hot list by browsing to their profile and then click on the Hot Member link.

Q: What is Spam Report?

A: Spam Report is your way of notifying us if another member is sending you spam emails or just plain bothering you. You can send us a spam report and we will take the necessary actions in resolving it for you even if it means suspending someone's profile.

Q: How are we notified of a spamming member?

A: Browse to the user's profile click on the Spam Member link and that's it.